What are
we suppose to do when we are expected to hide ourselves under the sheath of
clothes and from the eyes of perverted male circle. This is the well known
topic on which there was loads of talks and debates, agreement and
disagreement, and finally the so called preaching as the inferior gender, it is
better to hide the shame and move on.
Let me
try to think from the perspective of a male who is simply imagining a woman as
a tool for pleasure or just an object who can satiate his thirst for pleasure.
My question is then why are they living in human society or is it the society
who should be blamed for this situation. I knew about a lot of friends who went
through this shameful process of being stared at or being touched at
inappropriate places or being persecuted for a long time. Whether it is a
friend or a so called well wisher or anyone who thinks that they know you well
to do anything they want to do with you are extremely inhuman and unjust and
are not fit to live in a so-called society. As far as I know many girls could
not raise their voice because they were afraid of the so called shame that they
will face when it is known to everyone.
I believe
if those who do it do not have any shame while they do it then it is no wonder
that those who are the victim of this situation should not feel like the guilty
party. I wonder why then it is the girls who suffer at the hands of even
justice in some Middle East countries and what kind of social rules are being
followed in those countries.It is not about education or about social value it
is about simply being humane to understand about violating another human or a
minor in many cases.
I was not
shocked to see the news of the teenage girls being raped by adult apes because
I am quite familiar with the situation, each girl knows how it feels to be
humiliated or to feel that feeling of insecurity when so called horrible ape
circle is around, may be they are wearing the masks of a relative, a friend a
well wisher or a stranger but alas! It is the animal that we girls can actually
visualize. Do they think they are superior or because they are the stronger
ones or because the girls are naive enough to hide it, they are going to be not
guilty or it is their birth right to humiliate a person because they are not born
with a conscience?
It is
high time that there should be strict punishment for it and in most cases it is
the law makers or the people who are in-charge of the safety and security are
misusing power. However, I strongly believe that they are the ones who should
be ashamed and not the girls, it is not because of the way they dress or
nothing is wrong with them, it is the male perspective in most cases which
needs to be changed, because they are capable of violating even minors and
ruining their happy lives and psyche forever. Last but not the least, I would
like to ask the society to change their view point and ask girls to feel
comfortable about themselves and feel confident about reporting such a case of
violation and mistreatment as it is a human right and also for men to be
ashamed of themselves who are involved in this kind of acts.
